Coaching Modules: The Lean Six Sigma Path to Emotional Intelligence & Intimacy Legacy Mastery

Example 10-Session Series ~ Each experience is customized and tailored 

Below is a 10-session coaching module structured around the Lean Six Sigma DMAIC model, specifically designed to help high-achieving men master emotional intelligence and build a lasting intimacy legacy. Each session has a focus, key objectives, and suggested experiential exercises to deepen learning.



Program Promise:

This program transforms your relationship to intimacy, emotional intelligence, and connection using the proven framework of Lean Six Sigma, applied to human connection. You will learn how to create a relational legacy with the same precision you’ve used to build your business success — through systems, processes, feedback loops, and intentional leadership of self and others modeled in a feminine way. 


SESSION BREAKDOWN


Session 1: DEFINE – Your Emotional Legacy Blueprint

Objective: Clarify your vision for emotional intelligence and intimacy.

Key Themes: Purpose, Intention, Defining Success

Topics Covered:

  • Why emotional intelligence and intimacy matter to you
  • The cost of neglecting this work on your future
  • Defining your"Intimacy KPIs"
  • Identifying your "customers": partner, family, self

Exercises:

  • Legacy visualization: What would your partner/children say about your ability to provide emotionally/spiritually/playfully?
  • Define 3 measurable relational outcomes you want by the end of this program.

Session 2: MEASURE – Current State Assessment

Objective: Get clear on where you are starting.

Key Themes: Emotional Metrics, Self-Awareness, Data Collection

Topics Covered:

  • Measuring emotional intelligence (EQ Assessment)
  • Identifying emotional strengths and blind spots
  • Evaluating current relational habits and patterns

Exercises:

  • Self-assessment tools (Attachment Styles, Love Languages)
  • Partner/friend feedback on current emotional and energetic accessibility 
  • Tracking internal emotional states and past wounding 

Session 3: ANALYZE – Identify Your Emotional Bottlenecks

Objective: Understand what’s been blocking your growth.

Key Themes: Root Cause Analysis, Systems Thinking

Topics Covered:

  • Identify personal "waste" in relational habits (avoidance, defensiveness, over-intellectualization)
  • Analyze family history in connection and disconnection
  • Impact of nervous system dysregulation

Exercises:

  • Timeline of intimacy: map rupture and repair patterns
  • Identify top 3 emotional blind spots or reactive tendencies

Session 4: ANALYZE – Nervous System and Emotional Architecture

Objective: Understand how your body impacts emotional intelligence.

Key Themes: Somatic Intelligence, Safety, Co-Regulation

Topics Covered:

  • The role of the nervous system in intimacy
  • How stress responses sabotage connection
  • Building somatic literacy

Exercises:

  • Body scan practices
  • Identifying where emotions live in the body
  • Tracking when you leave or stay in connection somatically

Session 5: IMPROVE – Emotional Regulation Mastery

Objective: Build reliable tools for emotional regulation.

Key Themes: Emotional Literacy, Regulation Tools, Resilience

Topics Covered:

  • Emotional granularity: Expanding vocabulary for feelings
  • Self-soothing vs. co-regulation
  • Building a toolbox for emotional balance

Exercises:

  • Breathwork for nervous system regulation
  • Tantric Sex Education 
  • How to live from the body exercise 

Session 6: IMPROVE – Presence Over Performance

Objective: Shift from performance to authentic presence.

Key Themes: Relational Leadership, Vulnerability, Authenticity

Topics Covered:

  • How presence outperforms performance in connection
  • The art of slowing down for deeper access
  • Reframing leadership in intimacy

Exercises:

  • Presence practice (eye gazing, slow touch, breath sync)
  • Practicing micro-moments of vulnerability in daily life
  • Feedback loop from partner or friend

Session 7: IMPROVE – Communication as a Legacy Tool

Objective: Upgrade communication for connection, not control.

Key Themes: Attunement, Listening, Expressiveness

Topics Covered:

  • Attuned communication techniques (mirroring, validation, curiosity)
  • Identifying the difference between solutioning and relating
  • Repair rituals for conflict

Exercises:

  • Real-time communication role-play scenarios
  • Practice expressing needs without defensiveness
  • Conflict repair protocol worksheet

Session 8: IMPROVE – Ritualizing Connection & Emotional Wealth

Objective: Build sustainable systems for intimacy growth.

Key Themes: Ritual, Consistency, Leadership of Love

Topics Covered:

  • Designing rituals for connection (daily, weekly, monthly)
  • Prioritizing intimacy as a leadership practice
  • Investing emotional wealth like financial wealth

Exercises:

  • Create personalized rituals of connection
  • Design a 90-day relational rhythm calendar
  • Review your legacy KPIs in progress

Session 9: CONTROL – Safeguarding Your Progress

Objective: Ensure your emotional intelligence remains sustainable.

Key Themes: Systems Maintenance, Accountability, Feedback Loops

Topics Covered:

  • Recognizing early signs of regression
  • Creating accountability structures (mentors, friends, coaching)
  • Building in self-assessment rituals

Exercises:

  • Self-review protocol for connection health
  • Creating accountability partners or check-in structures
  • Refine your KPIs for long-term maintenance

Session 10: CONTROL – Integrating Your Intimacy Legacy

Objective: Solidify your identity as a relational leader.

Key Themes: Identity Integration, Long-Term Vision, Reflection

Topics Covered:

  • Reviewing your growth and milestones
  • Redefining success beyond business into relational wealth
  • Committing to your Intimacy Legacy as part of your life's purpose

Exercises:

  • Write your personal Relational Legacy Statement
  • Identify how this will impact future generations
  • Celebrate milestones and set future intentions



Outcome by Session 10:

You will have a personalized embodied system, to sustain emotional intelligence and intimacy as an ongoing practice — not a project with an endpoint. You will embody the relational leadership required to leave a meaningful legacy of presence, love, and connection for a lifetime.



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